Monday, June 10, 2013

Settling.

Most of my friends are already married or having baby or getting married or in relationships,
and here I am,
on my own.

Not that I feel left out because my favorite people never do that to me,
which I am forever grateful for.

Anyways,
what I wanted to say is,
marry out of love,
not out of convenience.

I know people who get married because it is convenient and also out of family pressure and they aren't happy.
I have seen them happier, much much much more happier before getting hitched.

And I also know people who marry out of irrevocable love, you know the kind of love that everybody wants to have but only a few are lucky enough to experience, that kind,
well this kind, gives me hope,
that in time it will work out for me too, when the time comes.

I always believe that one should only marry out of love and respect. Overtime love might fade, I mean seriously, you can't be in love with your partner 24/7, there are times where you want to stab them with icicles when you wake up in the morning after a fight,
but respect is another thing.

With respect comes responsibility,
and being responsible is very important in maintaining a relationship in a marriage.

Well,
only marry when you are ready to be responsible for another human being.

To love,
in sickness and in health.

It's there, not for nothing,
but for something.

I hope when I do settle down one day,
It will be out of love, 
out of irrevocable love.