Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Control 2.0.

I have been meaning to write for the longest time but work/friends/family/life always gets in the way and I have some time to spare now so here I am.

I talked about control before.
Like how we only have control of ourselves.

Like in relationships, be it with family, friends or your partners.

You can only control yourself.
You can do your best.
You can love them when they're least loveable.
You can trust them.

But that's all you can do.

You can't control them.
What they want to do is under their control.

They can love you less.
They can trust you half-heartedly.
They can just do their good, not their best.

It's up to them.

So, it is important to remember that you can only control yourself, and do your best and love them anyways and hope for the very best that they have all these under their control as well.

I always believe if you're sincere, loyal and have faith in relationship, things will always work out well. 
And if the other party decides to throw all that away and be unkind, it's their loss.

It.
Is.
Their.
Loss.

Or life just happens.

:)